To someone. Alfred Adler considers this a foundational aspect of the Adlerian world view. People will dislike you. He says that in any given room 1 of every 10 people will dislike you. 2 out of 10 will like you. And the other 7 will pay you no interest.
As someone who's been cycling too frequentiy these past few years between modes of courage and "people pleasing", I really needed this reminder today. Thanks Eric!